The mediator will certainly help you comprehend if it could be appropriate for your circumstance. In mediation, both you and the various other parent will certainly be able to increase things that are essential to you as well as function to concur a service. If a situation litigates, a judge will certainly decide for you as well as it will be legitimately binding. An advantage is that both participants know from the outset just how they will pay for mediation. A drawback is that the cost of mediation will be taken out of the joint possessions therefore will reduce the quantity available for negotiation. Each participant pays a share of the mediation cost proportionate to their disposable income.